Because it's something I've been struggling with for nearly a couple of years.
While you're at it, read this too.
I don't really know what to say about the site, We Are The Real Deal, perhaps you read it and have different opinions than I do. The site, which sprang from a BlogHer panel, had one of my favorite bloggers, Kate Harding, as a member. So, um, yeah. They have a mission statement, and then one of them wrote something, and the website kind of blew up. Here's the post which brought me to the beginning of the blow up...I'd be interested in your take on it: